Divabetic House Tours: Diabetes Advice Room By Room

We’re taking you inside some of the most beautiful homes to raise awareness for diabetes in a new way with our new podcast series, Divabetic Home Tours.

From the kitchen and bathroom to the family room and bedroom, diabetes affects all aspects of your home life.

We’re sprinkling between pictures of rooms with diabetes advice and videos from Homeworthy’s most gorgeous homes to spark your interest in self-care.

Welcome to the Divabetic House Tours: the Kips Bay Show House New York edition.

Celebrated interior designers transform a luxury Manhattan home into an elegant exhibition of fine furnishings, art, and technology each year.  This event began in 1973 when several dedicated Kips Bay Boys & Girls Club supporters launched the Decorator Show House to raise critical funds for after-school and enrichment programs for New York City children. Over the decades, the project has become a must-see event for thousands of design enthusiasts and is renowned for sparking worldwide interior design trends.

Throughout our tour, enjoy Divabetic’s exclusive audio of wall-to-wall diabetes advice and conversations room-by-room to help you keep your house a home.

Start in our state-of-the-art kitchen and meet Jill Weisenberger RD, CDCES, who chats about how to make your food environment less stressful.

Outside stress triggers our drive for comfort food, including excess sugar-sweetened beverages and sweets such as baked goods.  At the same time, during stressful moments, we tend to lower our intake of whole foods, fruits, and vegetables.  This, in turn, leads to a higher risk of insulin resistance, excess visceral fat, and type 2 diabetes.

MaryAnn Nicolay talks about reading nutrition labels. One tip for people with diabetes or prediabetes is to focus on the total carbohydrates, dietary fiber, and calories to help reach your health goals.

Plus, before you, treat yourself to Paulette McWilliams’ soulful song, Mama’s Kitchen Table.

Gospel Singer Pat Lacy shares how she practices portion control. One option is to reduce your carbohydrate portion sizes and keep them to less than a quarter of your plate. Still hungry? Fill up on green vegetables and eat lean protein and healthy fats instead.

Foods high in good fats include vegetable oils (such as olive, canola, sunflower, soy, and corn), nuts, seeds, and fish.

Stroll through the spacious family room where Lorraine Brooks and Rachel Zinman get comfy on the sofa and talk about the feelings related to managing diabetes in today’s world.

Clarence Waldron tells how acting F.A.S.T. after experiencing a stroke was the key to his recovery.

Don’t leave before clicking on the LINK to share a free pre-diabetes test with our loved ones.

The Center for Disease Control offers a National Diabetes Prevention Program to help people with prediabetes make lasting lifestyle changes to prevent or delay type 2 diabetes.

Relax in the luxurious spa-inspired bathroom, where you can pick up tips from beauty and style tips experts and find out how diabetes can affect your skin, hair, and teeth.

For instance, hair loss can be a symptom of type 1 and type 2 diabetes. Experts believe it is caused by hormonal imbalances, poor circulation due to hyperglycemia, or an autoimmune disorder. Hair loss can often be reversed with medications and by tighter blood sugar management.

Falling can be a concern if you live with diabetes and have peripheral neuropathy or nerve damage (loss of sensation in the feet, legs, and hands), retinopathy (damaged blood vessels in the eyes), and hypoglycemia (low blood sugar).

Mama Rose Marie offers an easy tip for anyone afraid of falling in the shower.

Crawl into bed for some pillow talk on addressing and overcoming intimacy and sexual health concerns.

Even though people with diabetes are at a higher risk for sexual problems, a study in Diabetes Care found that only about half of all men with diabetes and 19 percent of women with diabetes have broached the topic with a doctor.

Dr. Janis Roszler PhD opens our eyes to what intimacy can mean for people affected by sexual health issues related to diabetes.

Many men with erectile dysfunction, for instance, later learn that they have diabetes. For people with diabetes, sexual problems can indicate nerve damage, blocked arteries, and even out-of-whack hormones.

Ambrice Miller founded Relic Interiors, a dealing company that curates incredible art, antiques, and beautifully handcrafted furniture. She gives a tour of her English countryside home.

Men and women experience low libido as a result of poorly managed diabetes. If your sex drive is stalled, look at your diabetes management and take steps to lower your blood glucose levels. Then, consider your medications. Certain drugs, such as antidepressants, can reduce sexual desire, so be sure to talk to your doctor.

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Finally, if you don’t stumble on any surprises, crawl into bed for guidance on overcoming sexual health and intimacy concerns.

Plus, at the end of the tour, you can get a copy of Divabetic’s Top Questions to discuss at your next Doctor’s visit.

Divabetic: It’s All About Attitude!

This Homeworthy episode features the beautiful Connecticut home of renowned interior designer Bunny Williams.  Bunny graciously invites us to tour her 1860s Falls Village home and discover her converted barn that was originally a garage, but is now filled with many of her and her husband John Rosselli’s extraordinary antiques.

First Ladies And The White House

 
I attended the discussion because I’ve been to the White House twice. I went on a public tour as a child with my family in the 70s when the White House was open to the public. Last year,  I visited again when my boss, Itzhak Perlman, was invited to perform at the first-ever  Rosh Hashanah reception at the White House.

Leslie Stahl started the conversation by saying she felt First Ladies are incredibly courageous because they are constantly scrutinized about how they look, what they say, and what they do. She reasoned their unelected power is cause for concern for many Americans. Many historians believe the First Lady is the only person the president trusts, so her perceived versus her actual power is a bone of contention.  It appears most First Ladies hide their power to avoid public scrutiny. First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy admitted she didn’t want people to think she wielded power like Eleanor Roosevelt did. 

According to the Author, several First Ladies were very powerful. Mimi Eisenhower got behind civil rights, Mary Lincoln backed emancipation, Mimi Eisenhower fought for  Civil Rights, and Lady Bird Johnson might have been photographed throwing wildflower seeds on the highway ‘to keep America Beautiful’, but behind closed doors, she ushered in the first of many important environmental protection laws.

Over the past 200 years, the White House has been the residence of 44 presidents. Transforming the presidential home into a mansion worthy of welcoming foreign dignitaries and other honored guests often fell on the nation’s First Ladies. 

About a month beforehand, President John Adams moved into the new  White House in Washington DC; it was unfinished. The president and First Lady Abigail Adams made six rooms comfortable and had others prepared for official entertaining using furniture shipped from Philadelphia.

The First Ladies who had the greatest impact on the White House refurnishing were Dolley Madison, Mary Todd Lincoln, Jacqueline Kennedy, Nancy Reagan, and Pat Nixon.

In 1809, President James and Dolley Madison moved into the nearly completed White House that contained worn furnishings from past administrations. Mrs. Madison employed Surveyor of Public Buildings Benjamin H. Latrobe to refurbish the State Floor, and he custom-designed furniture for the Oval Office. She redecorated today’s blue room in yellow. She was known to stand in the middle of the room to greet guests so she could be the center of attention while her husband, who was quiet and small, stood in the corner.

On August 24, 1814, British forces invaded Washington, D.C., and set fire to the White House. The responsibility of rebuilding the White House fell on the new president, James Monroeand First Lady Elizabeth Monroe. Their goal was to restore the dignity and grandeur of the President’s House as a conspicuous symbol of a strong, united country. However, the President and First Lady were considered to be snobs. She refused to return social calls, and the two often spoke to each other in French at State Dinners, to the dismay of their guests. They ordered the elegant French Empire furnishings to furnish the White House, which didn’t bode well with the American public.

President Andrew Jackson’s 1829 inaugural reception turned into an exuberant drunken party, breaking china and soiling seat cushions.  A $14,000 appropriation was used to repair and refurbish the interior and replace the broken dishes and glassware. Even though the public perception was that Andrew Jackson was spendthrift, he spent $45,000 for new furnishings, an enormous sum at that time.

First Lady Mary Todd Lincoln exceeded the $20,000 budget for furnishings because the White House was in such bad shape when she moved in. President Abraham Lincoln was furious with his wife when he discovered her spending spree included a French porcelain dinner and dessert service, carpets, French wallpapers, draperies, and an ornate and laminated mahogany bedroom suite with the infamous Lincoln Bed. He redirected funds for the White House gardens to public programs to pay back the difference.  

Other tidbits: War hero Ulysses S. Grant and First Lady Julia Grant‘s questionable taste was described as  ‘late Mississippi Steamboat.’ Their gaudy makeover, with its grand gas globe chandeliers, became a symbol of the dark side of the Gilded Age after scandals related to his presidency surfaced.
 
Theodore and Edith Roosevelt brought significant changes to the White House out of the necessity of accommodating their six children.  Although Edith Roosevelt was also considered a snob, she understood the role of the First Lady and created the First Lady gallery section in the White House. 

First Lady Helen ‘Nellie’ Taft smoked, drank, gambled, and surfed! She also drove. She created a cherry orchard and suffered a stroke. 

On this Divabetic podcast, Clarence Waldron talks about his stroke and recovery, working as Senior Editor and Writer of Jet Magazine, and his memories of Luther Vandross and Aretha Franklin.

Clarence’s story is an excellent reminder of why it’s essential to ACT F.A.S.T. if you or a loved one is experiencing a stroke. The acronym FAST (Facial drooping, Arm weakness, Speech difficulties, and Time) has been used by the National Stroke Association, American Heart Association, and others to educate the public on detecting stroke symptoms.

First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy visited the White House as an eleven-year-old girl. She was disappointed by the frayed curtains and lack of luster in the home. She also was upset she didn’t receive a booklet or book after the tour.

As First Lady, she began an extensive program to revive the historic character of the White House. She formed a Fine Arts Committee to advise her on acquiring authentic period furnishings, and Lorraine Waxman Pearce was hired as the curator of the growing collection. She created the first visitor guidebook, published by the White House Historical Association. A call for donations by Mrs. Kennedy led to a great influx of authentic furnishings, including three original chairs from Monroe’s Oval Room suite and a chair made for the East Room in 1818—an Act of Congress in 1961 extended legal protection to these and all White House objects.

Tibit: Since you can’t throw any furnishings from the White House, it’s all stored in storage units around Washington DC. 

In 1970, First Lady Patricia Nixon and the Committee for the Preservation of the White House began a program to furnish several of the rooms with American decorative arts. She massed the largest collection of Americana artifacts, including hundreds of pieces of furniture, nineteen chandeliers,  china services from past administrations, and carpets to the White House. She also opened the White House to the blind and people with disabilities. She allowed night tours of the White House so that people who worked 9 to 5 could still visit. She also amassed the biggest collection of Americana artifacts during her tenure. 

Nancy Reagan was crucified for the refurbishing she did in the public and private quarters of the White House. The American people wrongfully accused her of spending excessive taxpayer dollars on redecorating and a new state dinner and dessert service with 220 place settings, each with nineteen pieces. But the receipts show she used private funds. When I visited the White House, I liked her china pattern the best even though I didn’t care for her. I will never forget the horrific way President Reagan and First Nancy Reagan turned their backs on millions of gay men during the AIDS crisis.

Lesley Stahl shared some hot gossip about Nancy Reagan. When Barbara Bush showed up for a luncheon at the White House in a red dress, Nancy told her to go home and change. Apparently, ‘red’ was Nancy’s color, which meant no one else could wear it. 

Lesley Stahl wrapped up the discussion by asking Author Carl Sferrazza Anthony whether or not marriages improve in the White House. He answered, “for the most part.” However, he noted that the Hoovers had a strained marriage during his presidency. 

Help Us Light the Way During National Diabetes Awareness Month (November)

Approximately 96 million American adults—more than 1 in 3—have prediabetes. Did you know that over 80% don’t know they have it? Prediabetes increases your risk of developing type 2 diabetes, heart disease, and stroke.

This November, join Divabetic’s Blue Candle initiative and encourage your friends, co-workers, and family members to be screened for pre-diabetes. The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) offers a quick, easy online Pre-Diabetes risk test.

Prediabetes Risk Test

Be by their side when they check, and share your experience of living well with diabetes so they can see that living well with diabetes is possible. Together, we can help others come out of the dark, address their diabetes health status, and start living their lives to the fullest.

We’re sharing excerpts of interviews from our favorite Divabetic podcasts over the years. This excerpt is from our Prediabetes and Type 2 Diabetes Diagnosis Turnaround podcast with Jill Weisenberger, MS, RDN, CDCES, CHWC, FAND, and gospel singer Pat Lacy.